People often say, ‘It’s easy to fall in love but staying in love is hard!’ Actually they already said the reason behind the hurdle of staying in love.
The thing is you can’t fall in love easily, you take time to fall in love. Know the person, be with the person for sometime or maybe a lot more time before falling in love and you will see that staying is actually easier than falling in love for the first time.
Love takes time to happen, dear. Love at first sight is so over- rated, it can only be a sign that you want to know the person, the good and bad about that person you still are not aware about to decide to spend the rest of the life with. You look at someone, he or she looks attractive to you and you start to draw some kind of image about the person; most of them are good and you live in that zone which is created by you only for a few time and when that zone seems unreal and you get to know the real person, you feel out of love. So, in just a random moment you are in love with a person, it’s not at all possible!
Love is different than just looking at each other, smiling and praising the beauty of each other and promising not to leave each other’s sight ever; it’s lot more than that actually…
And when you fall in love so easily, you blame love; that love is nothing but a waste of time. At one time time you realise that you are not able to stay in love with the person you fell in love so easily and start abusing love.
If you have taken time to realise if it’s love or not, can you be able to love the flaws and beauty of that person altogether or not then love doesn’t get abused at all.
Love is beautiful, if you ever been in love, you can’t just spread negativity about it; if you are doing so then you must be the one who can easily fall in love and for whom staying become so hard…