First thing that comes to my mind is having a lasting relationship.Marriage should be a commitment of two people to one another and to each other who are united together in that bond. It’s the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death.It doesn’t guarantee that everything will be fine tomorrow, but it does say in the big issues of life we are doing okay.Marriages sometimes need that reassurance as well.After getting married your spouse should be the first person you to share anything in good and bad times.There must be a good amount of conversation back and forth between the couples.
Emotional connection must be there or else your house will be just as deadly as violence in silence when it comes to marriage.You need to have the ability to discuss frustrations and concerns and to find a workable solution,discuss and talk about issues and find a meaningful way forward.You know when couples come closer together???When they can turn difficult times into situations that deepen their trust in each other,that moment their relationship almost become unstoppable into unconditional love till the end of life.
One of the great benefits of marriage is knowing that someone desires to make our lives easier.Your marriage will be in a good place when your spouse lessens your load rather than adding to it.Society often overvalues sex as its the most important thing in the world when you are married.But many couples undervalue sex it is an important element of a healthy marriage.When a couple finds the middle ground, it results in a meaningful level of intimacy.Sexual faithfulness in marriage includes more than just our bodies. It also includes our eyes, mind, heart, and soul. When we devote our minds to sexual fantasies about another person,we sacrifice sexual faithfulness to our spouse. When we offer moments of emotional intimacies to another, we sacrifice sexual faithfulness to our spouse.
Guard your sexuality daily and devote it entirely to your spouse. Sexual faithfulness requires self-discipline and an awareness of the consequences. Refuse to put anything in front of your eyes, body, or heart that would compromise your faithfulness.Feelings come and go,but a true decision to be committed lasts forever and that is what defines true love.It is a decision to be committed through the ups and the downs, the good and the bad.When things are going well, commitment is easy.But true love is displayed by remaining committed even through the trials of life.Successful marriage partners learn to show unending patience and forgiveness to their partner. They humbly admit their own faults and do not expect perfection from their partner. They do not bring up past errors in an effort to hold their partner hostage.And they do not seek to make amends or get revenge when mistakes occur. If you are holding onto a past hurt from your partner, forgive him or her. It will set your heart and relationship free.
Relationships don’t work without time investment.Never have, never will. Any successful relationship requires intentional, quality time together.And quality time rarely happens when quantity time is absent.The relationship with your spouse should be the most intimate and deep relationship you have.Therefore, it is going to require more time than any other relationship.If possible, set aside time each day for your spouse.And a date-night once in awhile wouldn’t hurt either.Honesty and trust become the foundation for everything healthy in a marriage.But unlike most of the other essentials on this list, trust takes time.You can become selfless, committed, or patient in a moment, but trust always takes time.Trust is only built after weeks, months, and years of being who you say you are and doing what you say you’ll do.
It takes time, so start now… and if you need to rebuild trust in your relationship, you’ll need to work even harder.It’s easy in a relationship to get into the habit of saying I love you. In a healthy relationship, it’s far more than just habit. Happy couples are regularly struck by their good fortune of having one another, an awareness that at any moment life could take one of them away, and a gratitude that they have the time they have been given.Marriage is like an art it all depends on how well you sketch it.You truly respect each other.
You earnestly want to hear what your spouse has to say on an issue, even when you know it will often be different than your own opinion.And when they make choices that aren’t the same you would make, you still show respect and discuss future choices in a respectful manner.It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages so one must always treat their parents as their best friend.Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.